Online Dating Safety Tips

Online Dating Safety Tips

Safety-wise, meeting on the Net is inherently similar to meeting offline. As long as the same standard dating precautions are followed, cyber-savvy daters can feel truly at ease while getting to know each other. The main thing to remember: trust your instincts and use common sense just like you would offline.

Before you get started, here are a few guidelines to keep in mind.

Helpful Hints

* Remember that you are in control of your online experience at all times. You can remain completely anonymous until you feel ready.
* You are also in control when it comes to taking an online relationship offline. Plus, you have an advantage online because you can get to know each other before you meet. Remember that you don't need to take anything further than the computer or phone wires until you feel completely at ease. Go at your own pace!
* When you do decide to meet face to face, pick a public place and provide your own transportation to and fro. Tell a friend where you're going and check in when you return home.
* Never include your personal contact information in your profile, especially telephone numbers, email, home address or your last name, and only give them out when your instincts tell you this is someone you can trust. It's okay to take your time.
* Set up an email account just for online personals.
* Ask a lot of questions and watch for inconsistencies.
* Stay away from members who won't take no for an answer or pressure you for any kind of personal information. Serious cyber-savvy daters will respect your space and allow you to take your time.
* Even with our strong effort to ensure the quality of our sites, we cannot guarantee perfection in the system. To deal with this, we have a 24 hour customer care hotline, and we ask members to call if they see anything strange so that we can research it.
* If someone asks you to go to their personal web site or asks you for money, use common sense not to oblige and then report the situation to us.
* If someone gives you a phone number with a strange area code, check it out to make sure it's not a charge number before you make the call.
* Using your own good judgment is your best bet because ultimately you are responsible for your personal dating experience. Trust your instincts and then have fun with the right people!

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Where are all the nice guys? by Quiet bar guy
A common complaint - all men are bastards. Where are the nice ones?

Well, have you looked around? I mean properly. Say, most guys you meet are guys who come up to talk to you in bars, then what about the good looking guy who's just hanging around with a couple of mates by the jukebox? Could be one of the shy ones often mentioned here. So, he's not the sort of guy who'd try to come over and pick you up... but you like the look of him, don't you? Go on, you do. And he's NOT going around trying to pick up girls - could well mean he's not just after getting laid, you know.

You don't necessarily have to march over and talk to him if you're uncomfortable doing that (though there's nothing more affirming to a guy that a girl likes him than if you make the first move - you're almost guarenteed a call) - just make some sort of initial contact. Catch his eye and smile a couple of times. Hopefully, he'll get it